How Parenting in India Differs From The Netherlands: Dutch Mother Breaks Down 7 Eye-Opening Differences, Says 'Academic Pressure Starts Far Too Early in India' A Dutch mother living in Mumbai has shared her observations on the distinct parenting experiences in India compared to her homeland in the Netherlands. Ivana, who has resided in India for nearly nine years, reflected on her journey of raising her daughter while celebrating her second birthday. She emphasized that understanding the trade-offs of different parenting approaches is more valuable than labeling one as superior. Initially, she found many aspects of Indian parenting surprising, particularly the strong emphasis on community support. In the Netherlands, parenting often feels like a more independent responsibility, whereas in Mumbai, family and neighbors actively contribute to child-rearing. Ivana noted that relatives and neighbors are consistently available to help, watch over children, or engage with them, which took time to adjust to after her independent upbringing in the Netherlands. She also highlighted the welcoming nature of public spaces in India, where children are generally embraced in most environments, unlike some areas in the Netherlands where children may not always be fully accommodated. Ivana pointed out cultural differences in parenting styles, with Dutch culture encouraging independence from an early age. In contrast, Indian parenting often prioritizes interdependence and community bonding. For example, children in the Netherlands may start school independently at a younger age, while in India, they are more integrated into family and social networks. She values the strong community support in India but also believes in fostering respect and critical thinking in children, even within a more hierarchical system.#mumbai #netherlands #amsterdam #ivana #dutch_mother
